haters and doubters, rejection

Hey there, fellow wordsmiths! So, you’ve taken the brave plunge into the world of self-publishing, huh? Kudos to you! But guess what? It’s not all rainbows and unicorns. Rejection and criticism are like those pesky rain clouds that occasionally roll in. Don’t let them dampen your spirits, though – they’re just pit stops on your journey to greatness.

Brushing Off Rejection:

Okay, so your book didn’t skyrocket to the top of the bestseller charts. Big deal! Rejections can come in many flavors – from low sales to crickets on social media. Remember, these don’t define your talent. The literary world is a wild jungle, and sometimes it takes a little longer to find your tribe.

Turn Criticism into Gold:

Hold on to your hats, because criticism is like a secret treasure map. Yeah, it might sting a bit, but hidden in those harsh comments are gems of wisdom that can help you level up your writing game. Think of it as a makeover for your manuscript – a chance to fine-tune those plot twists or give your characters an extra layer of awesomeness.

You, Not Your Work:

Picture this: your writing is like your favorite pair of funky socks. If someone doesn’t like them, it doesn’t mean you’re not fabulous. The same goes for your work – negative feedback isn’t a reflection of you. It’s just one person’s opinion in a sea of potential fans.

Channel Your Inner Rocky:

Remember Rocky Balboa? He got knocked down a bunch of times but still came back swinging. That’s the spirit! Let rejection and criticism be your training montage. Harness that energy to improve, innovate, and show the world what you’re made of. You’re the author of your own story, after all.

Rejection as a Trampoline:

Don’t let rejection slam the door shut; turn it into a springboard. Maybe that agent or traditional publisher said “no,” but that doesn’t mean you can’t carve your own path. Dive into self-publishing like the maverick you are. Sometimes, the road less traveled leads to the most exciting destinations.

High-Five Your Tribe:

Connect with other self-published authors who know the struggle. They’re the ones who understand the late-night writing sessions and the thrill of hitting that “publish” button. Sharing your journey with them can be like sipping hot cocoa on a chilly day – comforting and invigorating.

Grow Through the Grit:

Think of rejection and criticism as that tough workout that makes your muscles ache. It’s not always pleasant, but it sure makes you stronger. Every writer worth their salt has faced doubters. Embrace these challenges as opportunities to craft your skills and emerge as a battle-hardened storyteller.

Final Thoughts:

So, my fearless friend, remember this: Rejection and criticism are just temporary squalls in your self-publishing adventure. They won’t stop you from riding those waves and making your mark. Embrace them, learn from them, and keep sailing towards the sun-drenched shores of literary success. Your story deserves to be told, and ain’t no negativity gonna dim your authorial glow!

About the Author

Dr. Jeannine Bennett, overcoming procrastination, Haters and Doubters, rejectionJeannine Bennett is a published author, Christian Career Coach, and passionate advocate for personal and professional growth. With a love for writing Christian Bible Studies and career-centered self-help books, Jeannine’s words aim to inspire and uplift readers, guiding them on a journey of faith, purpose, and success. As the founder of Vision to Purpose, she empowers individuals to discover their dream jobs and achieve their career goals. With a wealth of knowledge and experience in business and leadership, Jeannine also shares her expertise as a college instructor at a Christian University. Her writing and coaching endeavors reflect her unwavering commitment to helping others thrive. Connect with Jeannine to explore her books and join her in pursuing a fulfilling life of purpose and impact. Need a writing coach? Check out Vision to Purpose, where Jeannine offers writing services.

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Knowing and Following is Book 3 in the God’s Way Series. Want to read Book 1?  Check out Broken to Beautiful here!

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